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Tuesday, August 19, 2008

Why do we persist ?

And we insist that our way is always the right way ?

Cheeky Monkey read my Sunday's post and he disagreed mostly with what I had to say. Was my perspective of the whole situation wrong ? Did the message that was put across confusing ? Could I have done a better way of expressing myself ? Did I even have to express what I was feeling ?

Firstly, I am not disputing any comments or opinions of my kind readers. Everyone's entitled to a piece of their mind. I am just afraid of putting things across in the wrong light. Would it have helped me, if say, I'm seen as a good person and the other party was totally in the wrong ?

The point of all that was written was to give a semblance of thoughts churning in my head. If I had somehow misled you into thinking that I was right and CM was wrong, I apologise for my words. The intention was to put all things in perspective. To work out the kinks in our relationship.

At times, our partnership is not the best in the world. We have our silly arguments, we have our petty disagreements. We may pout and we may sulk. I may throw the occasional temper tantrums and he may exhibit a resigned disposition. We would then come together and vent our anger or dissatisfaction over our behaviours. But at the end of the day, we would always come to this same conclusion.

The journey of our life together may be tough and arduous but we will persevere. We want us and that's the most crucial school of thought for now.

"Short of love, we will never come together.
Short of temper, love will dissipate."

1 comment:

Salwa Asri said...

Relax la BOTH of u. Don't be too harsh against words ya! I know how u feel sis but sometimes THOSE MEN just don't understand how we feel & how we express our feelings.

My advise to you is to be just relax & calm down. In a relationship, we need to really, really, really understand each other well coz if we don't arguements would start and things would turned out SOUR.

To CM who would be reading this COMMENT, try to put yrself in HER SHOES. I guess if you cld, then u wld understand & feel how the way she feel. Hope that BOTH of u cld b HAPPY as ALWAYS... Cheers.... MUACKS..... =)